Every man or woman who is looking for a good husband is up against it. The truth is that, most guys are jerks in some way. Probably now more than ever.
I should know that it was just like this and not as bad as most of the guys out there. Always have in mind that the only thing I need to do these days in order to make myself feel superior to a lot of men out there is to open my eyes and ears widely.
So that a bit of insight shall we? From a guy whose marriage ended to those who don't want theirs to, it shows that it's ain't rocket science and I know it too well. But vividly reminders me from the real world that are worth their weight in starlight. And as it goes this way, here are 4 amazing pieces of marriage advice that a good husband will do without being asked.
(1). He Always Listens:
For God's sake, listen up and stop trying to crowbar your beliefs and opinions into every square inch of your love affair. It's horrific and it's also a bullet in the temple of the person down the pillow. The act of Listening doesn't mean some 1953 version of taking out the trash when you're told or either. What I'm talking about is that I'm trying to open your mind by shutting down your ever-clanking mind.
(2). He Doesn't Project His Insecurities:
Most of the men have almost surreal ways of covering up all of the stuffs that bugs them about themselves as well. Financial stress, wishing for more, fears, desires, sexual frustration, men are probably experiencing it. Yet, many guys bury everything.
(3). He Helps Out Around The House:
Things like Laundry, Cooking, Dishes and Packing lunches for the kids. And also Grocery shopping and as well as Paying the bills online. The list goes on and on for some stuff that so many men have somehow weaseled their way out of over the past trillion years solely based on the flimsy notion that "This is a woman's job". Don't perpetuate that myth another second. I'm begging you.
(4). He's The Best Dad To His Children:
This is really obvious that I'm embarrassed to even have to bring it up in anyway, but I know I have to. So here goes. Being a father is one thing and being a dad as well is so much more. So you're slightly disfigured member who is to make you a father.
Meanwhile, everything about you will really make you a dad if you want it with your heart. Your soul. Your endless, boundless love for your child. Your desire (not your "trying to pitch in' BS"), but your desire to change diapers from the moment your baby is born until they use the potty. Actions make the daddy.